Stay in relationship or not?

the first step to finding out the answer to your feelings is perhaps to ask yourself a few questions such as: 1. what do you expect from the person you are in a relationship with? 2. does the person you are currently with meet your minimum expectations? 3. if no to number 2, what more do you want and is it possible for them to adapt? 4. if someone else came along that meets your expectations better and that you have a chance of being in a relationship with, would you leave them for the new person?typically the reasons that one stays in a relationship: 1- afraid of being alone 2- afraid of not finding anyone elsehope this helps!

I have been in a rebound relationship where I thought I was in love but I wasn't. Part of why I stayed though (though I didn't realize at first) was I was afraid of being alone. I guess you will have to ask yourself, "How happy does he make you?" "How much do you think about him when you are away from him?" For me I eventually realized that she didn't really make me happy. I mean I was happy when I was with her, but when I wasn't, I didn't really think of her much. I liked her more as a friend then as a gf. I decided to end it since it wasn't fair to her that I didn't love her like she loved me.And since he is moving away, can you live with a long distance relationship until you two can live together/near each other?