Should I Talk To Him Or Not?

My ex and i had a weird break up. We were forced not to see each other or talk to eachother because my mother did not like the fact that she did not know we were together.

We had a great relationship and we were in love with each other. Now that we are broken up, i have yet to talk to him in about 3 months. I miss him and need him back in my life even if its not as my boyfriend but just my friend. We had the best times with each other and often we would sit and dream of our future together, where we live how many kids we would have. I truly believed he was my one and only.

I’m too scared to text him because i feel as if he has gotten over me and moved on. I do not want to be the one to bring back old memories and have him regret our whole relationship because of my stupid decision.

Should i talk to him and just ask to be friends or should i let him be and try to move on?

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Trouble Making Rebel

4 Answers

Try talking to him about the whole being friends situation, see what he says, and just go from there. You obviously miss him and having him as a friend is better than not having him in your life at all.

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adriitrevino

Yes, I do think that you should talk to him because if you can't get him off your mind, then it's worth the shot. Even if it isn't a relationship, it's fine; having him as a friend is better. Having him as a friend is better than not having him in your life at all. But if you figure out that your mother still doesn't approve, it doesn't matter. Love can answer anything and if you were actually meant to me, it's worth it, trust. Unless under huge circumstances with your mother, try to work it out. On the other hand, if your ex has already moved on, accept it. Don't try to fight it, if he loves you, he'll figure it out sooner or later and it'll be worth the wait. But if it's been TOO long and you feel like you're not moving on with your life and he's the hold up, please move on. You can't put your life on hold for a guy that may or may not still love you. Hope I helped :)

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Teresa Nguyen

Yes i feel like you should talk to him, because you honestly never know what is going to happen, maybe hes wanting to next you but not sure if he should or not. I really think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and see what he says from their. Its worth a shot, you never know

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ScreamingInSilence

First ask yourself your intentions. If you honestly see it as just friends and nothing else, I would say yes talk to him and tell him just that. If there is any doubt in your mind that you may not be able to stay just friends, you need to evaluate that. Because if you cannot be with him, it will just make things worse on yourself. That "almost have it, but just out of reach" kind of thing. Even then though, if you come to the realization that you still have feelings and just need him in your life, tell him. Be honest. Completely honest. You may be surprised at what he has to say, but you'll never know if you don't try it. Just be careful, because your happiness is the most important thing here, and you have to do what makes you happiest.

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