Okay.. so this might be a bit complicated but I really just can’t sit around anymore without some outside help with this.
I’m 19, and a girl, and I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with a guy I met online for a few months now. I live in California and he lives in North Carolina, but we decided to give it a shot. Lately though I feel like we’ve been drifting further and further apart, as we never really talk anymore, even when we’re both online. I always assumed maybe he was always playing video games, but even when he’s not he never even really says hi until I have to log off. Since I haven’t been able to really talk to him or anybody about my relationship I’ve been feeling extremely lonely lately.
The biggest problem our relationship’s been giving me is the fact that when I asked him out he told me straight-out that he was polyamourous (Meaning he likes to see multiple people at once). I can respect him for his lifestyle and the fact that he was honest to tell me straight out, but I feel uncomfortable being in a relationship with someone like that.
Should I break up with him? He’s absolutely a sweetheart and I’m really shy and scared that I might hurt his feelings, but at the same time I want to try and find a relationship with someone I can physically be with. What should I do?