Hi, all.
I have just recently moved back home to my parents after living with my boyfriend for 4 months. He made the initial choice to move back to his parents because he was unsure about his finances for school. Since I could not afford to live on my own while going to school, I had to move back to my parents as well.
Just recently, my boyfriend has told me that after sitting down with his father and talking about finances, he would like to keep living together. Now this is where the problems for me begin. My parents have just recenty bought a house with a basement so that I could have my space. My dad told me that it would be very irresponsible of me to move back out because I would be spending money that I could otherwise save.
I have figured out my finances and I know that I could afford to live on my own with my boyfriend. I just don’t know if I should. My heart tells me to do what would make me the happiest, and my mind is just confused and scared to tell my father. I fear that if I do, our relationship would go downhill very quickly.
So… should I stay or should I move out?