Should I let go?

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Okay, so this is the first time I am being really open about this topic. I have strongly liked the same guy for over a year now and it is really starting to get to me. I have no idea if he even thinks of me that way. I have had fleeting crushes before but this one I can’t seem to get over. But, after a year with no progress it is really starting to discourage me. It is really starting to hurt me. I see him with other girls and it hurts. I don’t really know what to do anymore. I guess I should add that we are friends that talk on a regular basis. I was hoping for advice on this. Should I work hard to move on? Or should I try something else? and I should try something else how would you suggest going about it? (:
Thanks(:

Category: Tags: asked November 21, 2013

2 Answers

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Talk to him, girl! If he doesn't feel the same way then it'll be something to work on, but you'll eventually get over it. You're wasting so much energy worrying about him and who he's talking to.. It's not worth it!
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You don't even know if he feels that same way! He could have a crush on you and won't know until you make a move. It's not enough to just dream about him, you need to go out there and see if he like you too. Straight up ask him. If you've haven't talked to him before, get to know him, and try to be his friend first. I don't think you should give up, because really, you haven't even started.