I’ve been going steady with this guy for almost four months now. He and his ex-girlfriend still talk and are still really good friends. The problem is that he still has feelings for her alongside his feelings for me. He says he loves me more romantically than he does her, and that he wouldn’t leave me for her, but I don’t quite believe him. We’ve gotten into a fight about it because he wanted to let her kiss him on the cheek the next time they hung out. (A side question. Am I wrong for getting angry about that? He won’t let my friends kiss me on the cheek, so why should I let him, right?) Anyway, I’ve told him how much I’ve worried about it, and so far it seemed to be okay until last night. His ex and I are good friends as well, and we were chatting on Skype last night. She wanted me to text him telling him that she said hello. I thought it would be harmless, so I did. Before I had told him, he seemed really upbeat and happy, but once he got the message, he first sounded upset, and then said she better give him a bear hug when she sees him next time. Like his mood just took a sudden downward loop. He usually tells me he loves me with a little <3 before I go to bed, but he didn't even do that last night. It seriously hurt and I'm honestly really sick of constantly having to worry that he's pulling stuff behind my back with her. I really care about him, and this has been eating away at my brain and seriously giving me psychotic thoughts like moving far away so that he can't see her anymore…please help me. I have no idea where to turn. If I turn to him or his ex I'll just get the same positive but un-fulfilling response I always get from them. My family would probably tell me to break it off, but I don't feel like that would be necessary. Should I just sit the three of us down and talk about this?