Should i leave my parnter

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I have been with my BF for 7 years, and we brought a house 5 years ago. Over the last year Ive been thinking about whether I still want to be with him. We have drifted apart, we no longer have much of a physical relationship and have less in common than before. He is shy and doesnt like public displays of affection, I used to find this endearing but now it annoys me, I know he loves me dearly but I want him to show it. I do still love him but our relationship is routine and I wonder if this is normal and I should just get on with it. It is very hard to talk to him about any problems as he will ust blame himself.

3 months ago I slept with a friend of mine and have been spending a lot of time with him, he makes me feel so confident and is affectionate and this has brought to ahead all the things I have been feeling about my relationship over the past year. I would never leave my bf for someone else. What Im wondering is as how relationship come to a natural end, or should i try and change and improve things.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked August 31, 2014

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First off, you don't love him. You slept with someone else. Don't try and sound like you're a remotely decent person for cheating. You're not.The best thing you can do now is to stop trying to ease your own conscience and just fucking break up with him. You're going to hurt him a lot more if you try and pussyfoot around it like this. Break up with him. Do it and do it now.Some chick did pulled the shit you're doing on me and it almost drove me to fucking suicide because she didn't fucking hurt at all when the breakup actually happened, because she "thought about it" for two fucking years. The longer you wait and do sneaky shit like sleep with someone else the more you're going to kill him inside.

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I don't think anyone here can tell you what to do as it's not our relationship.

I don't think however that there is a solution for getting out of this nice and amicably. Seven years and cheating are a hard thing to just get over.

I'd also note that all relationships hit stale points. How we handle them is the important part of getting through them. If you wanted to talk this out. My inbox is always open.

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i know you may have tried this before, but have you ever sat down with your partner and talked to him about the things that are bothering you? men are by far not the easiest ones to pick up on hints from women and i bet he would understand if you told him what was going on or if there were things u wanted to not neccissarily change but, work on.

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