So throughout my life my mom hasn’t exactly been the best mother. She has bipolar disorder, so I grew up with all her mood swings; being totally happy one second and the next screaming in your face. Until the last 4 or so years, I thought that was normal. Anyway, she’s called me a bitch multiple times before, this year she told everyone in my family that I’m a slut (not true and she should know that), a couple years ago she and I were fighting every day (I’d come out of my room, she’d hear me, come out of hers and just start yelling at me). She manipulates everyone in my family, she kicked my oldest brother out of the house when he was 16 because he wouldn’t mow the lawn (called him the devil child and told him to never come back), she lied all the time and told me it was my father’s fault.
I have four siblings, two still live with my parent’s, two (and me; including the “devil child”) are living far away. The two that are living far away won’t talk to her and they’re always telling me not to talk to her, but I do because I feel like I have to. They tell me she hates all of us and that’s why she acts like this. But I think it’s because of the bipolar disorder.
My father is always making excuses for her obvious lies and for her behavior. I think it’s because he loves her and knows it’s not her fault. He calls me sometimes to tell me that she needs me and I call her and let her talk about anything she wants to. It’s usually not any problems, but I can tell she’s upset and she’s just holding back.
I guess my question is: after everything she’s put my siblings and I through, should I continue speaking to her or should I cut her out of my life like my two siblings did?