Should I just move on, or keep trying?

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There’s this girl, and I think she is perfect in every way. We have been friends for a couple of years, and at the beginning of this year I decided I was going to ask her to homecoming. I baked her a cake, but after it was finished I learned that she was not going to homecoming. I delivered it anyway, with a note saying something along the lines of saying I was going to ask her to homecoming. She told me it was the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for her. I took that the wrong way, and decided to ask her out. My friend told me that there was this other guy at another school who she was interested, but I ignored him and asked her anyway. She said no, and then started dating the other guy a wek later. They have been dating for eight months. We are jr’s now, and he is a senior. At first she kind of acted weird around me afterwards, but now we are probably the closest we have ever been. I’ve met the other guy, and he is awesome, but i just don’t know what to do. I really haven’t been able to move on, but I don’t want to do anything stupid.

Category: asked June 27, 2013

4 Answers

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As hard as it is, try to move on. You're in the friend zone for whatever reason and that's pretty much impossible to move out of. It's probably for the best too if you actually care about this girl and want to keep her in your life.
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i now feel sad, because i can comprehend how you feel.
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I believe you should drop her. I know it's hard to do but make her feel like her life isn't complete without you. If he's graduated he will DEFINITELY move away. when you go to college your schedule tends to change. 80% of all long distance relationships tend to fail. Once they break up, text her the sweetest apology ever for ignoring her. Then wait a week or two and do the most romantic thing you can think of.
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awww the cake was so sweet I wish u were my boyfriend but anyway I think u should move on but still be her friend and maybe be her best friend then when her boyfriend break up with her ask her or u should be her best friend and be so romantic and maybe she might cheated on her boyfriend with u or try to make her jealous but I think if u her best friend its would be more harder to ask her out but anyway just move on and wait for the right time when she single and ask her.