This is a silly thing, but it’s been nagging me for forever. I’m afraid what other people will think if I have an engagement necklace instead of a ring.
People, especially women (DEFINITELY women) talk about engagement bling all the time. It always reflects on the fiancee’s man.
I considered getting the necklace but then getting a cheap ring to rock on my finger, but then these women/strangers/society itself will be all “oh how much did he spend on your shiny rock?!”
It’s easier said than done to tell people that it’s none of their business…Suggestions, anyone?