should i give up on my ex or not?

I went through almost the same thing a couple of months ago, after a two year relationship that ended because I was ignorant and told him he didn't make me happy anymore. Sometimes love is letting go - it's easier said than done but begging to continue the relationship generally means it wasn't meant to be. If it's meant to happen then one day life will grant you another opportunity, but until then it may be best to be on your own and learn how to live without him.

Do you really want back in a relationship where you guys take turns hurting each other?

You have to dicide for yourself what makes u happy and you might say he does but he cant be your only happyness you cant not cling to that cus your going to contiue being depress and over thinking things its going to drive u crazy. Yess its going to hurt but time heals all wounds

Before anything at all,think if YOU want to get back with him.If you do,would your relationship go back to how it was?Would both of you still end up hurting each other?If that's how it would be,then it is best not to get back with him.Instead of feeling upset,think about these things first.I know it is easier said than done,but try it.

If you have broken down into nothing more than retribution, it is time to end the relationship.