I have this best friend who I really love for five years. We were like magnets. Almost all our personalities are the same. But I also have a crush who’s recently hanging out with the two of us. And my best friend is completely aware of me having a crush on that guy. Then because of school projects and other commitments, I had a hard time hanging out with them. Then one day I called my best friend and asked if she wanted to hang out with me but then she said “im with my boyfriend”. She wouldn’t tell who it was, so i let it pass. Then at school I saw her holding hands with my crush. And that’s when i realized they were dating when I was not with them. Worst part here, is that they actually lied the whole time. The reason why my crush started hanging out with us is that he was already courting her that time. But they kept it all along. Making me like the third wheel of this friendship.
Should I just throw away five years of friendship? Or Should I move on? I was thinking on throwing five years of friendship, but damn. It’s five freakin years and she’s a part of my life now. But it’s also hard to move on because she lied. I hate being lied. And she’s super duper aware that I had a crush on that guy. Why didn’t she just tell me that he’s courting her?
Help.