My husband and I have been together going on five years but separated in August of 2014. The reason for the separation was the fact that he was constantly drinking and was becoming more aggressive and violent in his drunken rages and couldnt hold down a job. I was supporting the household (granted we dont have any kids but there were a lot of bills!) Since he left to live in a different city, he and I have stayed in contact with each other. He has been doing a lot better, currently working 13 plus hours a day 6 days a week. He purchased his own car, has been paying his bills, and has been handling his drinking issue. He has been going to A.A. meetings and has shown a lot of progress and improvement. The feelings I had for him on the day I married him are still present and always have been. I am a little nervous about getting back with him as there are prior instances of D.V. due to over indulgence of alcohol. I have told him that if there is any chance of us ever working out, the alcohol has got to stay gone. I gave up drinking a long time ago and in the last 3 years have had maybe 10 drinks(usually a glass of wine at a dinner party and thats it). I have no problem continuing on my end the not drinking, but it honestly does make me nervous to a point. But at the same time I miss and love him terribly. What are your thoughts and opinions on this? I would appreciate any input and feedback! Thank you!
