Should I breakup with my boyfriend?

I’ve had a really bad past with guys and I finally found a really good one but I have such a hard time trusting him. We’re on a 5 week break from college for the holidays so I won’t see him. We text everyday and stuff but he’s going to be going to parties and I’m so afraid he’ll cheat on me. I keep thinking of these different scenarios that could happen. I talk to him about it and stuff and he says he’d never cheat and reassures me of how much he loves me but I’m still so scared. Should I just break up with him so he doesn’t have to deal with my over thinking and just go have fun? I feel like a burden and I don’t want to be that to him.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked December 16, 2013

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Shelby

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Dont breakup with him. You arent a burden! Everyone has insecuriites. You told him how you are feeling and its up to him to be a good person and respect your feelings. You cant ever be guaranteed that people wont dissapoint you, thats just apart of life! But its okay to trust people every once in a while. I think that if he told you flat out that he would not do that to you and if hes never done anything that made you question him in the past then you shouldnt worry. Just enjoy your break from school! Hang out with your friends and be happy! Im sure everything will be fine and you told him how your feeling so he knows, and that should be enough.

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KellyMichelle:)

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Don't overthink on a matter that you don't have control over. It sucks when other people put you in a position to not give others trust but don't let that bet the reasoning. Just talk to him about it. Just tell him how you feel and that it really worries you and that you want to figure it out. Breaking up with someone because of an assumption can be really regrettable.

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Dallaseah

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This seems like something he deserves to have a say in! You two can agree on breaking up rather than cheat on eachother if the feeling arises.

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rinseandrep

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