shall i tell him?

Im thirteen and when i was Eleven (Year Six) i went out with this guy,i actually really liked him and he made me happy,he made me laugh and well we had a nice relationship.Until i got to year 7 i started to feel shy and we hardly spoke as i felt i would embrass him infront of his friends after a year and a half together we split up,it upset me but got over.2 months later he went out with one of my best friends and i was there when he asked her out and they hugged and she being my bestfriend told me all about there relationship and did upset me a bit. a month later they broke up,i still feel like i have feelings for him but i don’t know as i dont know if i could go out with him after he kissed my best friend and all..

Category: Dating & Relationships asked January 10, 2014

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MegReaMcd

3 Answers

Well before you even consider the possibillity of getting back together you have to figure out exactly what went wrong the first time, and make sure that never happens again.

If you are really in love with him still, you could always tell him, of course! But be prepared for a negative response. If you're friends and you don't want to ruin that, maybe you should first find out if you even want to get back together with him. If you didn't after all it would've been a shame.

About your best friend and him, just forget about it. It couldn't have been anything serious and you should never let something like that come between a friendship. Getting over it will only make your friendship stronger and more reliable for future troubles.

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Beneke

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oh no i never let it come in our friendship i told her about it and shes like you should of told me mates before! it just upset me a bit and i told her that as we tell each other everything

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MegReaMcd

If you still like him then go for it. If you didn't mind seeing your friend going out when the guy you like then I'm sure your friend won't mind either.

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BamItsRob