serious relationship, thinking about other person , is this normal?

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I am in a serious relationship with a guy who is just perfect for me. He is prince charming, sex is also good with him . I cound imagine having a family with him etc. But for some reason I fantasize about a foreign guy that i met in the summer a lot. I keep checking his facebook profile , I want to know what is going on with him , I even had dreams with him a few times. Is this OK? I mean i really love my boyfriend but i keep imagining scenes with that foreign guy and that scares me

Category: asked May 3, 2014

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I think most people have fantasies about unattainable people. The problem comes in my opinion if they take the place of your daily life. Maybe this guy is more than a fantasy or not.
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I think it's normal for people to be curious of what their life would be in different situations, I think it's normal, however, I think you should resist the impulse to check out his FB. Don't bother getting in contact with him either, or it will make things worse between your boyfriend. It only becomes an issue if you actually begin to cheat on your boyfriend, which you should avoid at all costs.