Just a little bit of background for you guys before I explain the real problem:
My dad died six years ago from a drug overdose. It was just my little sister, my older brother and I that were home, my mom was at work.
It was the most terrible loss that I have and will ever face in my life. I was daddy’s little girl, he was my best friend. We did absolutely everything together and never went a day without him.
But after six years, I’m over it- I’ve dealt with it as much as I possibly could and there’s nothing left to face.
So the problem- my mom thinks I need counseling. I don’t understand! I went through a few tough years of severe depression through my teenage years, but it was totally unrelated to my father’s death and I’ve been long since over it. I’m fine now.
She made me go to this thing for teenagers who have lost loved ones. we sit in these little groups and just talk. But all of the kids there lost their mothers/fathers in the past few months/weeks. Why does my mom think I need to be there NOW? after SIX YEARS. Help? Please tell me if I left out anything that made the question confusing or hard to answer!