revenge?

My sister is a complete asshole on top of that she is a thief she’s mean to me constantly I have put up with it to long as of today she has broken 6 pairs of my headphones these were like 50$ headphones I’m only a teen so when she does this I have to wait a LONG time to get a new one my tablet I had to wait 3 months for a new one then she broke it again about 3 months ago I have yet to get it replaced my laptop bout a year ago that has not been replaced and my phone I now have nothing and those took a long time to get and keep I make music and when she broke my laptop I lost everything I have nothing and she has never apologized or anything and I get in trouble every time I bring it up she has a iPod and iPad and none of her stuff has ever been broken unless she did it herself I just find it funny how I never touch her shxt and when I do I dont break it and even though I am her older sister she treats me like shxt every single day for some reason she thinks she’s better than me so my question haha should I cut up her chargers I have to use my dads computer and this stuck up bitch gets the family CPU her iPod and iPad I feel like I need to get revenge take charge and make her fear me but I’m not really sure how and don’t tell me to be the bigger person cause I’ve tried that she deserves this trust me I’m not being biased one time we went to get dress shoes because my dad had a speech coming up and when we were in the store I asked my dad if I could have these 25$ dollar shoes and he said no were tight on money so I let it go then literally 5 minutes later my sis came back with some 80 dollar heels and my dad bought them and then the other day I asked my dad if I could buy something offline and he said yea but he just paid the rent so you can only have 25$ I said ok yea thanks literally later that day he let my sis spend about 90$ I’m tired of being treated like a fucking unwanted step child in my own Fuckin home do u think I should I have so much anger I dont want to act wrongly and trust me I’m not biased this is all 100% I looked on both sides of this and my sis is a manipulative bitch and I’m not gonna put up with this anymore how should I in act revenge

Category: Family Tags: help revenge asked September 1, 2015

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lasette3

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Revenge isn't the answer. Ever. By getting revenge on your sister by cutting up her chargers or ruining her things, would make you no better than she is to you. I understand that the situation is infuriating; it's absolutely wrong. But fighting fire with fire will only create a bigger fire. It's not the answer. It won't be like that forever. Someday you'll be able to get out of that place, and you won't have to deal with your family anymore.

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Hayden

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I understand how you feel. It seem that my siblings get everything and I get nothing. I try to stay out of their way. But revenge isn't the answer. Try hiding your stuff or even go as far as locking it in a drawer. Revenge won't work because you'll most likely get in trouble for it. I know it's hard but you just got to stick it out until you can live on your own. Life isn't fair, and it's hard to understand that but once you do life gets a little easier. Message me anytime if you need someone to vent to :)

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Weird Kid

The answer is de-escalation, and get along better with your parents so that your words will carry more weight with them and they will be more likely to believe you when you report a problem. Refusing to fighting with your sister if she tries to start will display a growth towards maturity on your end, and with the reduced arguing in the house, the actual tendency of the arguments to start will begin to lessen.

Your goal is not confrontation, revenge, or getting that really good zinger in, it is non-engagement, not starting or participating in fights that are brought to you.

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Humanist Hope

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