Reading in too much?

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So I like this guy; a LOT. But when I like someone it’s usually hard to tell; at least, when I tell my friends, they always seem very surprised. Most of the time I try not to read into the people I like too much, mostly because I don’t want to get my hopes up or jump to conclusions: you know, ‘Ohemgee, he totally just winked at me! Maybe he likeees meee!’

But this guy and me; we’re pretty close. We talk about a lot of things, he complains when I don’t text him good night, he let me name a stuffed animal after him, and earlier today, we were talking about dating types and he said, (and I quote), “Personality-wise, I like people to have a good-humored, quirky personality— like yours, for example, is a great personality”.

So basically I’m asking, because I’d hate to get my hopes up if we’ve already friend-zoned each other or something: does it sound like he might be interested? Or am I just reading into it too much? Don’t be afraid to be frank with me; if I’m being delusional, just say it outright (a smack to the face would be preferred). I don’t want to be that crazy person who thinks everyone loves them:’D

Category: Tags: asked August 5, 2013

2 Answers

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It certainly does seem like he has some interest; but it could just be a friendship sort of thing, you know the good friend that you are close to and can talk about anything with. But you will never know unless you ask! You definitely do have reasons to get the intention that he likes you, but again you will never know unless you ask him or tell him that you have a crush on him.
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Not many guys bother with women that much unless they want something.You yourself will know what type of guy he is. If his not after just the "one thing" then hopefully his after you. Sometime you just need to put yourself out there,even if you might get hurt.