I am 14 years old, currently living in Canada with my mom and brother. I moved 4 1/2 years ago to BC from London, England. My parents have been divorced since I was about 5, and my dad stills lives in London. He now has a kid and a girlfriend. I feel like as I have become older and more mature, I am seeing things a bit more clearly as far as my parents go. I have really started to think about moving in with my dad. My mom and dad have a bad history, and are currently in the middle of court over money, so I am worried about bringing this up with my mom. My main reasons for moving are :
-Best friend is moving
-I can not stand this small town I live in (small population)
-No opportunities
-I don’t like the people in my grade (lots of drugs)
-I can’t deal with my grandma anymore (she constantly puts me down)
-I wan’t to live with my dad for a bit, I only see him about once a year
Please give me some advice, preferably from an adult perspective. There are lots of things to consider. Maybe you could give me some advice on how to tell my mom.