Opinions on sex drives in a relationship!!

we'll when im in a relationship i have constant sex drive, like whenever we are doing small cosy stuff together that don't require much thinking. like watching a movie, lying in bed, sitting and talking, sex always crossed my mind.in my relationship i felt like my gf didn't have as high a sex drive as me and it bugged me a little because i've read alot of places that womens sex drive are as high as men, so it was upsetting to have the feeling like she thought about sex alot but didn't want to do it all the time like me? - was she thinking of sex with others? (probably not).The best thing to do is not nag someone else for their sex drive, it will only make them want you less i guess

interesting topic... its something i think about a lot actually about whether my boyfriend is happy with how things are, if i should be making more of an effort, should we be as all over each other as we where in the beginning of the relationship etc its difficult because we both work long enough hours and sometimes we're just too tired to do it... hasn't affected our relationship but i try not to leave it slip too much because i don't want to lose the intimacy in the relationship... i'm cool with a conversation through pm because it would be interesting to hear another persons views

It would be great to get people's opinions on this. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our sex live was great until the beginning of this year. We have sex once a week if I am lucky but otherwise we just do not have sex and the whole thing is just bugging me. I knew our sex lives would not always be the same but I did not expect it to just die out like it has and I just do not know how to handle it. It hasn't affected our relationship but I just want to be able to have that level of intimacy with him again.