old bad friendship??

So I had a friend and years ago we where really close and I kind of fell in love with her. It was hard getting over it and I’m still trying to forget the bad things. But my friend told me she said she wants to talk again… I’m happy, sad, angry, glad.. I’m not sure what I’m feeling.
So now I hear she doesn’t want me to have her number and shes calling me from a restricted number to.. I don’t know catch up? I don’t want to fall victum to this girl again and my old feelings for her are blinding me from making a good choice.. I have no idea what to do. I want to talk to her but with out the old crappy stuff what should I do?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked March 30, 2013

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nineDtwo

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I don't get how she wants to catch up yet doesn't trust you enough to give you her number. Did something happen where she would want to keep some distance between you two despite wanting to be friends? Perhaps she is testing the water and if things don't work out she doesn't have to worry about you being able to contact her.If you had a rough time moving on from your feelings for her, it may be best to keep some distance from her as well, especially since its already beginning to bring back old feelings, not to mention if she doesn't trust you. Its the re-start of what already happen between you two.

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I'm not really sure what happened its like shed go off and on mad and happy with me.. so I just told her to go away and that was the last thing I ever said to her... I dont understand her. The things she does and says.. but she was my first real love. I feel like I should be the one not trusting her but I do.. I cony know how to keep away or really stand up to her...

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nineDtwo