What I want more than anything in life is a good Mother. I would give up everything for someone who loved me and cared for me, and someone who I admire and love back with all my heart. I feel like Mothers are the most precious thing, yet I don’t have one as my Mother is completely uninterested in me and has brought me up in a way I just want to forget and leave behind. But because of my upbringing, it has influenced my present and future, and this makes me hate myself so much that I just want to die and hope that I come back in a life where I have a mother I am close to, or at least one I don’t hate. Because of this unhappiness that follows me everyday, I am ruining all my chances at having a successful life, all I can think about is a loving Mother, and I imagine other people as my mother, then I get jealous which makes me unhappy and depressed and it is a downward spiral from there.
I feel this is a big problem as it is something that just cannot be sorted. There is no remedy. I have given up all thought of trying to have a relationship with my mother, so that is most definitely not an option. She is disgusting and horrible. The only thing I can think of is moving away from everyone I know and starting fresh, being who I want to be without people knowing my past, Uni is the aim, but I don’t know if I can get there with all this stress and depression of wanting a mother pushing me off track. If I can’t get away I feel like my life is over, and God knows what I will do then.
I want to have a baby because then I can make up for my need for a mother, by being everything that baby needs, but that is not an option now as I need to sort my life out before I bring another into the world.
I know this is difficult, but some advice and guidance would be nice as I feel like there is no hope.