My sister and I got in a huge fight yesterday. It began when I text to ask her to take a picture with me so I could post a ten year difference thing on instagram. She was rude to me and said no not today, and I asked her when she would be available tomorrow to take it? and she freaked out and said that I was pressuring her and annoying her. So then I flipped out and told her I was trying to do something nice for her and she was like “whatever”. So then I told her “To think I was going to buy you something nice, you don’t deserve a penny”.
After she came home she came by my room to say “Hi” but I ignored her. Today is her birthday and i’m debating what to do. My sister and mom posted something for her on facebook and instagram. l have remained silent. It really hurt when she called me “annoying” and dismissed my effort to be nice, especially when it was her idea to take the picture a week ago. There is a ten year difference between us and she is in middle school. I know I should be the bigger person but I do not take drama or rudeness from anyone irregardless of age.
Should I just text her happy birthday?Should I not do anything at all?