We’ve been together for three months. We are in an LDR and we talk ALL the time so there is usually never any worries for not talking to each other. We both keeping in contact with each other frequently and we’re both clingy and I don’t mind it at all. I’m very happy with him and he says he’s very happy with me.
What confuses me is, I really worry and wonder about him sometimes. He goes through these periods, sometimes a night, sometimes a few nights, where he seems to really push me away and I get nervous and scared. When I do ask him about it, if everything’s okay or if there’s anything he needs to talk about, he says he’s fine, that everything’s okay.
When this happens, like tonight he really does seem to have this closed off atmosphere like he pushes me away and I get really confused. I get terrified because I have been cheated on before. He cheated once before he said but a long time ago when he was a lot younger.
Tonight, he hadn’t been on and he usually calls me right away and we literally talk all night because we are that close, and I was worried and hadn’t heard from him, and I was worried until my friend told me he was on the game we play and he hadn’t messaged me on skype … These kind of nights scare me because he will say like he didn’t notice me come on,etc.
We have a very strong foundation and bond and it really hurts when this happens. I get confused thinking did I say or do something. Should I pull away to let him be for awhile? Do I ask him but what if I bother him? I get so scared and nervous and I really need someones help and advice on this.
