Okay so this is going to sound a little strange. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He and I aren’t as intimate as a normal couple. He wants me to make moves on him and I’m not comfortable with it because I’m not comfortable with myself and feel stupid when I picture myself making the first move. I’m not sure how to get over this. I love him with all my heart and I know he doesn’t care that I have put on weight since we started dating by I’m uncomfortable with it and am trying to lose weight so I am comfortable with myself. Any suggestions?