Lonely but the people i meet…

So I’m a lonely guy some would say a textbook introvert, and it’s not that I don’t have friends Im just growing tired of the old ones. Every time I go out to social gatherings or class the people I run into just seem shallow and no genuine quality, am I just a picky asshole who doesnt like people? I would love a group of guys to chill with and have a good time but I don’t seem to meet any that I feel on a level with.

Category: Dating & Relationships Tags: Lonely asked February 13, 2014

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Philosurf

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I can sort of get where your coming from, i'm not the most sociable person and after an hour or two where there are lots of people I feel worn out like I need to go and recharge. The thing to do is to work out how to make the best of the situations that you find yourself in. Its not about being content with what you have because if your not happy your not happy, but even though it might seem like effort sometimes you have to start a conversation that interests you because more often than not there is at least one other person in the room who will share that interest or at least know something about it and you can work from there. I'm lucky that my group of friends are considerate about the fact that i will just stop talking because i'm too worn out.

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Lokiami

ahhh tell me about it! It's like you wanna have a group of friends to chill and have a good time with right but...theres no one out there u can talk to properly? Mayb u can help me too lol are we just weird or something?

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