After a bad dumping I was verbally abused for few months after it. I can’t bring myself to be intimate with a man, I’m scared that they will use me like how the man I loved used me,my heads a mess and have very low self esteem.for months I was called names and put down and I can’t get over it, I could cope with a stranger calling me names but someone I had feelings for I can’t.
I’m very depressed and when someone wants to get close to me I push them away. I’m scared of being told I’m worthless and be compared to by other females, looks wise and how I am in bed as before it never bothered me I knew everyone had pasts but now I feel dejected. There’s only so many times im told im ugly and crap in bed before I believe it Which I do now.
how do I overcome this?
