I’ve always felt a little bisexual…?

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I’m a straight woman and I’ve always found the female figure/body to be more physically attractive than the male. I have no desire to have any sort of relationship/sexual encounter with a female, and feel perfectly comfortable in my heterosexuality. I’m totally fine with these feelings, I’m just curious if anyone else knows what I’m talking about. I’ve not really spoken to anyone about this.

Category: asked April 7, 2014

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I've felt the same way. I've always been able to recognize the beauty in other women, as well as men, but I have no sexual attraction to women. Being in a relationship, I always found it was easier to acknowledge women's beauty over men's due to jealousy issues. I don't think it necessarily makes me bisexual... I've only ever liked men. But I've always wanted my body to be gorgeous and trim and fit, so it was like I admired other women and their features because I wanted them as my own.
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It is always better to know, Miss. I myself am bisexual, and I did not fully acknowledge that for years. I outright rejected it for a while.

I recommend playing with the idea of intimacy with another woman. It is entirely possible that you are heterosexual, as you claim, but then again it is equally possible at this point that you could be suppressing your bisexuality.

The only way to know is to let the thoughts and feelings have a little more free reign and see how you react to them. You have nothing to lose; if you are bisexual, then you will be less-stressed because you are no longer unsure of yourself, and if you very simply are not sexually intrigued by your own gender, then you have the answer to your question, and you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are heterosexual.

Good luck and I hope you find your answer.
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I've always felt the same way and never told anyone and when I did they called me a lesbian. You aren't, you appreciate beauty and can call a women sexy or beautiful without having sexual thoughts about them. It's normal, you are normal.
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It is perfectly normal what you are feeling, I am straight but I do find women figure more attractive. I have felt and made out with another woman and definitely prefer men in that sense, there is nothing wrong with being experimental either. We all have curious minds and to me I believe that is pretty healthy.
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I am not afraid to admit that a woman's figure is more attractive. I'm not bisexual, I just think that it is what it is. I also acknowledge when a woman is very beautiful, and not out of jealousy or insecurity. I just do. There's nothing wrong with that. I'll never want to experiment however. I know what I want, and it's not a woman. So, don't worry about it. Just be careful who you tell it to and how it comes out when you do comment on it, because some people won't get it and simply call you a lesbian (because they're inconsiderate buttfaces), just like Paige was saying.
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vulpix, as an art student, i can vouch 100% that you aren't alone. every single one of my female friends agree, the female figure is much more beautiful than a males. males tend to be a little blocky, with too many shapes that get in the way of the flow and rhythm of the gesture, whereas a female tends to be made of these beautiful rhythmic sweeps. not to mention that females have an incredible flexibility that males have a hard time getting down.

aesthetically speaking, the female figure is just considered more attractive and elegant. the human eye is attracted to movement, rhythm, and flow. all of which is very apparent in the curves of the female form. males tend to be more mechanical and stiff, which has its own appeal, but it's just not as well loved.
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You may be bicurious, or perhaps you are biromantic and heterosexual. Or maybe you just know a sexy woman when you see one ;D Explore yourself and your sexuality, and don't be afraid to try new things.
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