Is this what I’ve become??

I used to be a really nice, shy, Christian girl but now ever since I got into high school, I don’t know what’s happened to me. I kiss random guys, I flirt with them, and one time I rubbed this guy’s….male part…..in class and afterwards I felt really disgusting and I wasn’t even sure why I did it. I don’t know why I’m changing all of a sudden but I don’t like it and I don’t want to become one of those low self esteem girls that go around f****** guys just to feel better about themselves. Is that what I’ve become?

asked December 24, 2013

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K. Love

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No, it's not what you've become. It's normal. It's high school. Your hormones are bouncing like crazy. If you don't like it, just slow your roll. When you're senior in high school, you can go back and laugh at moments like this. (I probably wouldn't mention the whole rubbing that guy's stuff but lol you get my point). There's always room for improvement. I hope this helps!

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ForeignGoddess

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Well, the fact that you recognised those things as bad and wanna remove them from your life is the first step to ensuring you don't become what you fear becoming if it carries on. Now that you know that, you can put a stop to it, now, so that you can remain classy.

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WallBat

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You are in high school. Your body is changing, hormones are changing. Having romantic desires is normal. Don't beat yourself up for flirting, and maybe kissing a guy or two. If you are not comfortable being sexual with these guys, don't do it.All in all, its natural to feel desires and act on some of them. Just make sure you are being true to yourself and make sure your boundaries are always respected.

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Ornament

If you dont like where you are, you're allowed to change. It's hard, really really hard, but eventually, you'll be in a place that you want to be. I'm sorry you don't like what you're becoming, but it's not too late to change. It's never too late.

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Zoe E