I have had a guy friend who also happen to be my ex-boyfriend whom we dated for about three years then he broke up with me for no reason that I know of. After we broke up he came back to me and we continue messing around as I didnt know that he had a relationship and I still loved him. I told him though when he starts a relationship he should tell me on the first go as I dont want to be sleeping around with someone’s boyfriend (I know that’s not right and I wont risk my health for it).
He never told me that he was in a serious relationship up to last year when I saw a picture of a kid on his Facebook page and people were congratulating him for a healthy baby girl. I went to him and asked as a friend why did he kept on messing up with me while he knew that he was in a serious relationship and his girlfriend was expecting. His excuse was we have “strong connection” that’s why he can’t leave me alone. Days passed and whenever I asked him about his girlfriend he will just tell me it is complicated and I shouldnt be concerned as he is just taking care of his kid and he is not in a relationship [FAT LIE].
We stopped messing around for about three or four months and then he kept on begging me to have sex with him. The only reason I went back to him and continue having sex with him is because I love him with all my heart. About three/four weeks ago I heard through a mutual friend that he is getting married, I was pissed off as I thought this dude is messing up with my head again. For good, I stopped messing around with him without indicating to him as to why I have done so.
I continued meeting and talking to him after I issued a stop without explanation because he has been asking me to help proofread his college stuff that he is doing the writeup at the moment. I feel like he wants me to keep on being his friend so as I could help him out with that. I have asked him out all these stuff (pretty much using me from all angles) but he keeps on denying.
Even though we are not dating and not having sex anymore, should I trust him as a friend or just dump him for good. I hate the guy but I feel sad not helping him out with his college stuff.