Firstly, let me say this: My parents are wonderful people. I love them. They’ve given me everything: a roof over my head, food to eat, clothes to wear, and the ability to go to college. I love them. But there are a few issues.
They don’t want me to do what I want to do with my life. They’re pushing me in the direction they want me to go, and yell at me and threaten me with things like mental hospitals and taking away all of their financial support if I don’t go to school.
There are instances where they say really mean things to me and guilt me to make me feel bad about things that are very normal. It’s made me very sad over time and I feel like I’m not good enough. They tell me I’m irresponsible and that I need to grow up, although I have a part time job, full time college, and I invest my time in my band.
I can never make them proud. They yell at me about small things. So. I don’t know anymore. Is this abuse?