My crush like never approaches or contacts me, however whenever we meet in person on purpose, or just in random passing, she always addresses me happily-before I even open my mouth to say a hello to her! I too think it'd feel better if she took some initiative. So maybe in both our cases we just need to straight up ask them about it. I know-if they're shy, that might sound like an interrogation from their standpoint, but hopefully if you (and me too in my case-though my crush doesn't seem shy, but still) don't come off sounding angry or demanding, instead open to an honest answer, it wouldn't be as bad.