is my love wrong?

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im 13 and my boyfriend is 8 years older than me. is that bad?

Category: asked July 11, 2013

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Well you know, legally you aren't supposed to be dating each other. And I think it's only odd because you are so young! I hope he's not pressuring you to do anything sexual or anything but I would say get out of the relationship. Age may only be a number but you are worlds apart on maturity and whatnot you know? I think the timing isn't right, you can still be friends with him but I don't think you should be dating this guy, he's a bit too old right now. Maybe in the distant future you can touch basis on that aspect again, but at least be 18 you know? I'm sure there are other guys your age that you can date and there's other girls his age that he can date for the moment. I just don't want him to take advantage of you or anything sweetie. Best of luck.
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Hell yeah it is. That's why they invented patients
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Although you may feel a connection, this is wrong. You need to speak to a close relative. Enjoy your youth while you still have it.
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Yes it is wrong. Please come by and message me, if you want to talk.. I have been in your shoes, so I know you feel, and tell you what happened to me while dating an older man, so it wont happen to you as well.
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It depends on the relationship. If you're just kissing and cuddling on the couch to watch movies, going out for dinner together, etc. then it's no harm. However, if you're doing anything sexual it's not good at all. He could be sent to prison, and if he's pressured you that makes it even worse. It's possible to make that connection at those ages, but most people do not act on them until the younger is of age. It's something to think about. One big thing you need to think about is whether or not your parents would approve.