Personally I'm of older ways of thinking and prefer a girl who is a virgin, HOWEVER! Stuff happens, the person you thought you loved just didn't work out maybe... sure, so you had sex with them before, ok big whoop it's part of being in a relationship. Maybe not all of them were relationship based, *so long as it wasn't cheating or anything* ok, maybe you were single and it just so happened you wanted to have sex with the guy you were with, that's on you and only you. So while I might differ in background, I give you my ok since honestly you shouldn't feel like it's "too many" all of them were your choice so stick up with what is fact and don't turn around to regret it, it already happened so you can't change it anyways. Just be you and love yourself ;), go ahead and have sex if that's what you like, just don't cheat haha, although I trust you wouldn't.