Is it too many?

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I am 19 and I have already slept with 6 guys.. is that bad?

Category: asked September 7, 2013

8 Answers

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I'm not the person to judge or anything. As long as you're safe, responsible, and it's not interfering with anything in your life, it's perfectly fine. Just remember to get tested to see if you contracted anything and make sure they you use all the protective measures when getting sexual.
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There's nothing wrong with that. You're free to do things that you enjoy, and if that's what you enjoy then you shouldn't feel bad about it as long as it's not hurting anyone. (I also strongly agree with what reinly said in the other comment)
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i'm 21 and have had sex with almost 30 people. i've never had an std because i used caution. i do not think that is too many. society makes women feel ashamed of being sexual beings, but we are. as long as you don't feel bad about yourself (and are protecting yourself), do not care what other people think.ALSO, to the person above, i've been in a wonderful relationship for a few years now and the man i'm in love with, who also is deeply in love with me, doesn't know how many people i've had sex with because according to him, it does not matter because it does not affect our relationship. as long as i am committed to him, my past is irrelevant to our future. i, in turn, don't know how many women came before me. in a healthy relationship, a partner will not hold things before them over you as mistakes.
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It's not that many, there are worse situations outta there. you're 19, of you're going to experiment, try stuff, flirt, have sex, etc. as long as you are careful and responsible for your actions, you don't have anything to be afraid of. If you have heard bad stuff about you been with 6 guys already, just remember that every person is different, what other people think is not always correct. If you feel like sleeping with a guy, do it. Of course it has to be with responsibility, but it's your life and choice after all. :)
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depends,.....are you going for some kind of record? lol......but seriously, only you know the answer to your question
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Personally I'm of older ways of thinking and prefer a girl who is a virgin, HOWEVER! Stuff happens, the person you thought you loved just didn't work out maybe... sure, so you had sex with them before, ok big whoop it's part of being in a relationship. Maybe not all of them were relationship based, *so long as it wasn't cheating or anything* ok, maybe you were single and it just so happened you wanted to have sex with the guy you were with, that's on you and only you. So while I might differ in background, I give you my ok since honestly you shouldn't feel like it's "too many" all of them were your choice so stick up with what is fact and don't turn around to regret it, it already happened so you can't change it anyways. Just be you and love yourself ;), go ahead and have sex if that's what you like, just don't cheat haha, although I trust you wouldn't.
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You already know the answer to that, why seek validation from strangers about it? I don't think its good for you emotionally.
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I am also 19, and I have only slept with 1 guy. I have been with him for five years and we have been engaged for one of those years. It took me 2 years to finally be ready for him sexually. We never did anything sexual the two years before. Only hug, hold hands, and kiss. Anyway, It's up to you. If you feel good and happy with yourself about it, then it isn't an issue. I personally think that it is too much, but hey, everyone has their own opinions and the only one that matters is yours :)