is it over ?

i don’t know what love is but ever since i met this one particular girl back in the 8th grade i can’t stop thinking about her, I’m not sure if its love but i can’t seem to let go of her, mind I’m in my first year of college now. we had something good, best thing that ever happened to me so far. difference is she already moved on and i haven’t. i alway have thoughts she still cares then i snap back to reality, its a damn shame for me she doesn’t feel the same way, i believe in movies too much.

should i try/find ways to talk to her or finally move on.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked January 27, 2014

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Lonny Breaux

4 Answers

Whether it's love or just an attachment can be very hard to figure out, but that is something only you can decide. It seems likely though. Once you've figured that out, it's up to you. However you have only a few options. If she's moved on and doesn't still care in the same way, then try to just be friends, maybe work your way back up and see where it goes. If she isn't interested in that either, then the best you can do is leave it and try to move on. Unfortunately, if she has decided to move on then there isn't much you can do.

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Curious

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I am pretty sure we chatted, you can message me of you need. Life isn't a Disney movie, you need to let go of her and start looking at the positives in others instead of comparing every detail to her.

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Unlikeany

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If you feel like you need a sense of closure than you may want to talk to her about this. The choice to speak with her should depend partially on how comfortable you feel with bringing it up and how comfortable she would be with speaking about the past since she has, as you say, moved on. Of course with all love lost, the best thing to do would be to move on although that is much easier said than done. Try getting out a bit. Talking to other people and focusing on making friends instead of new relationship.

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Blagage

Letting go can be a really hard thing to do. But in my opinion it would be better to talk to her, one last time and see what happens. Just for the sakes of knowing what might have happened. Talk to her and see. If it doesn't work out then the fair thing to do for yourself is to let go and move on! you can't let yourself be stuck in a situation where the energy is all given from one side. I really hope it works out when you do talk to her :D

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