is it okay to sleep around? – lonely

i feel a little bit lost right now but most of all lonely. There is guyA i met online i was just looking for fun and distraction and slept with him. At the same time there is guyB who is really nice and seems to care about me, but lately he started pulling away a little bit.
Btw currently i´m 21, i dont really have friends right now, and i´m single and just feel so lonely sometimes. I´m afraid that guyB will dump me after we sleep a few more times. The guy i lost my virginity to started to act distanced after the 2nd time we slept together. i feel like i just cant get it right, like i´m just not made for relationships. Right now i´m just sleeping around with random guys just so i wont feel lonely and feel at least wanted even if it is for a short time. What do you think of me? Are the things i´m doing wrong?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked July 21, 2015

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sillylemon

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Well sex for the sake of sex is OK as long as you do it safely. At the same time don't confuse sex for anything other than what it is. I mean if you are just craving closeness and just having sex to get it, then you stand the chance of of getting hurt. But if it is sex for the physical pleasure of sex, then by all means enjoy yourself.

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AnnieH

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If you've been doing the same thing again and again and still feeling horrible, then you might have to change something. How about being single for a change? I know it sounds scary, but it's worth a try if nothing seems to be improving. See if being free actually makes you feel better.

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pristine

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you know its wrong. you don't have to ask it. sex with random guy might sounds cool but it's not right. you will low, like what are you feeling. you will fee that you are only made for sex not for relationship and it is not a great feeling."the more we push love the more it drives away" just wait honey, there will be this one guy who will be emotionally attracted you and the wait will be worth it.if you enjoy random sex though it's wrong.. it will always be up to you. there were lots of things to do that you can enjoy and be happy .

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