Is depression for a 13 year old bad?

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Well I was In 5th grade and This boy I liked asked me out. I was so happy and we dated for 6 months, he was so sweet and Then He told me he couldn’t do it anymore. He told me I was fat and Ugly and He never really even liked me. He told me the hole thing was a dare and I had depression ever since and It has gotten worse…..

Category: asked July 19, 2013

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That's pretty awful, I'm sorry that you had to go through with something like that! But just know that anyone any age deals with depression and sadness. It's something I'm pretty sure all humans go through. To quote Rise Against, 'Life for you has been less than kind, so take a number stand in line. We've all been sorry, we've all been hurt; but how we survive is what makes us who we are.' Just know that pretty much anyone has had their share of bad relationships, so we just have to live and learn. So just wipe the dirt off your shoulders get back up from the ground and move on. Just know that it's okay to be sad, anyone has cried over a relationship, it takes time to heal but just know that it gets better so don't let this hinder you. Best of luck! Have a good one.
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He is just one of many people who will put you down in your life. Some people thrive on upsetting others. You need to change how you feel about yourself and get more confidence in who you are and remember, as hard as it is to understand, you are only 13!! You will one day get a real man telling you he loves you and can't believe how lucky he is to have you and that boy will be ling forgotten. Keep smiling and don't let that looser win by getting you down.
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I am so sorry you had to go through that. We cannot let people like this bring us down, they are losers who doesnt deserve anything we have to offer. It is his loss, because you are a great person you know? A dare? He is just a childish idiot and I am so sorry he hurt you like that. It must, because he also betrayed that sweet person he portrayed in himself. He was very wrong to hurt you like that. Anybody would feel down, and I know that it won't be easy, but you need to keep confident. Be glad that you found out the jerk he was so young too, and it didn't develop into a long term relationship where the hurt would have been way worse. Belive in yourself, and remember how much he missed out on :)
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I am very sorry that there are people out there that can be so cruel to you.Unfortunately teens can just be like that when it come to daring.You need to know that you are loved by others though and that's what is important and you need to hold on to that knowledge.I think you need to start with telling your parents how you feel and if you cant do that,some one needs to know so you are not keeping those emotions bottled up inside you and so they don't one day explode.Talk to your school councilor or if that also is hard because you have to be face to face with some one, as I know that can often be difficult to do,then if it would be easier to call some one as no one sees you on the phone,less confronting!,then please call up a teen crisis line. If you want some numbers here they are for you,as I dont know where you live Ill give you what I have ok! This could be a step in the right direction of getting more help than perhaps we can offer you here.These lines are open 24/7 free to call and are confidential and are for teens ok!.If you live in USA 1800 273 8255 Canada-1800 4483000 New Zealand 0800 376633. I hope this helps you.Good luck!
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Thank you guys so much! The last one really helped and I will call them.. You guys will never understand how much this helped me
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I am glad I coul help with the numbers I gave you.I know that some people just need to know where to go when they are having issues with depression. Some do other things like cutting or attempt suicide.But its important we try to find out or.... try to be honest with our self's as to why we feel this way ,what is happening for us to resort to these measures. Nothing will help in any long term until we get some sort of help that is needed.Often professional help is required and there isn't anything wrong with that.And it is better to get the help then do harm to our bodies.I am glad you came here when you did. Take care!
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Well there is more.. But yeah well.... And you really did help thank you so much <3