I really need help on this, and I will appreciate any advice given, whatsoever.
I’m a 16 year old girl, and I have feelings for my female English teacher, in her mid thirties. I’m completely straight otherwise. I had her as a teacher last year, and over the course of the year developed feelings for her, to the point where I couldn’t participate in class because of how nervous I was around her.
At the end of the year I found out I wouldn’t be having get as a teacher again this year, and I was completely distraught. Over the summer, however, I realized its best to not have her this year so I can get over her. I went the whole summer with hardly missing her, and was sure I was done with those feelings. Today at school, I saw her in the hall and completely freake out internally, more so than I do when I are a boy I have a crush on. I know these feelings are real.
I don’t know what to do. I don’t know why I’m attracted to her, other than the fact that she had some boyish qualities. She’s not exactly pretty, either. I’ve thought that maybe if she were a man these feelings would be reasonable, but somehow my mind is perfectly fine with the fact that she’s a woman.
Does anyone have any idea what they would do in a situation like this? I’m kid of disgusted with myself. I wouldn’t dare tell anyone I know personally about this, and this is the first time I’m seeking help. I don’t want to like her for multiple reasons, yet I can’t seem to convince myself not to. Please, please help.