in love with a friend.should i stop being her friend?

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so i have this friend(we’re both girls)and I’m in love with her. I dont know if she knows i love her but we have this attraction only both of us understands. She’s so girly and I’m the jeans and shirt kind of girl.She has a boyfriend, I met him once and they’re long distance. But I still love her though and we still hang out. I always go to their house to pick up the cakes/cupcakes she baked just for me and also to bring her food coz that makes her so happy. She even invites me over dinner at their house. And she doesnt do that even to her best friend.she just makes me feel so special. BUT a lot of guys are so into her coz she’s sooo gorgeous,beautiful,smart, funny.she’s perfect. and I get jealous everytime our friends ask her about her bf or those guys.It makes me feel so sad and hurt. I want her but I dont know if she wants me too.We chat all the time,I tried to ignore and she just kept on calling me.I am so confused. Should i stop seeing her?or distance myself from her? I just feel like I cant be friends with her coz I’m inlove with her and its hurting me.please help

Category: Tags: asked February 24, 2015

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First of all make sure you are indeed in love with her or you just like the attention she gives you and the time you spend together.I wish someone had told me this before.I thought I liked someone but in reality I liked the time we spent together.So really think of it.Now if you really like her I think you should tell her how you feel like 'I love being with you'If she says you are her good friend,the probably accept that she doesnt feel the same way and get over her before it is too late.But talking about your feelings is actually the best thing in your situation.If you admit how you feel and she doesnt talk to you after that then she doesnt deserve your attention.Now if she says she wants to be friends with you and thats enough for you,then be her friend and find someone else.And if she likes you back,well then boom,win.:)✌
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do not end up your friendship with that thing. control your emotion. you need to think many many times to arrive with a right decision