The best thing to do in those situations is to find out what the root cause of your insecurities are, and talk them out with your boyfriend. This is a two sided deal. I know first hand that it can be frustrating dealing with someone who you really like/love and trying to show them that, but their own insecurities overshadows the compliments and gestures of affection that you give. However, it is highly important that he realizes and supports you in this ordeal. I would say take out a sheet of paper.....write down everything that makes you insecure. Flip the paper over and on the back, write down some instances or experiences you've had that made you feel insecure. Give this piece of paper to your boyfriend, and try and figure out a way to overcome this.
