I’m new to this site. I came to this site because I need someone to talk to that wouldn’t judge me.

I’m new to this site. I came to this site because I need someone to talk to that wouldn’t judge me. Im 24, and I sometimes have a hard time putting things into words. It’s so awkward when I speak, and usually when I speak, I’m all over the place. Right now I’m in a horrible relationship. I deal with it because I have no one else to help me. I have 2 kids, and I want so much more for them. I hate my job. It’s so depressing because I feel like I have to talk to people to be accepted. I dont like to talk to people because sometimes I feel like people judge me, or I choke up and say some stupid ish. Im so unsure of myself, and so lost. & would like to talk to a complete stranger, because I wouldn’t care if you judged me.

Thanks for reading.

Category: Society & Culture Tags: Social Anexity. Relationship Issues. Parenting. Being Understood. Being accepted. asked November 16, 2013

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Shy

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Hi,I'd be happy to help you if you want to message me privately. I'm 25 year old female and I've struggled in the past with a lot of the things your describing. Difficult relationships, Difficulty expressing myself, not wanting to talk to people, I'm hating my job at the moment too! Feel free to message me anytime. I think I could definitely give you some advice that might help.V

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1,447

Hi, i'd love to help you through this time! I grew up around people just like you, and i'm still surrounded by them. They made it out of their tough times, you can too!

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Shelby

I'm dealing with this fear of being judged all the time. And truth is, although people don't ALWAYS judge you, some of them do, and will always do. And you most likely judge others as well. The best way to get over this is to ignore it and try not to be so scared about it. People judge each other all the time, and 90% of the time, they know nothing about the other person. If they would, they would stop judging. You can't ask people not to judge you, ever, because it will always happen. The only people who won't judge you or your problems, are those who are able to understand you or what you have been through. But then again, nobody understands others 100%. It's just life, you know?

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Haneul