I’m Depressed over my ex bf….

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My ex bf dumped me last September because we were not getting along. Especially when we were apart. We would argue a lot. But when we were physically together we would have so much fun. I loved him more then any guy I’ve ever been with. He was my first REAL love. I’ve found out that he’s been dating other girls but is still single. We remained friends and hang out once in a while. My feelings for him haven’tp changed. I want to be with him but I’m waiting until he takes me back when I know I shouldnt. I know I should move on but I can’t stop thinking about him everyday. I feel like he’s using me by keeping me around just in case he can’t find another better then me. I’m not handling him hanging out with me once in a while and hanging out with other girls that well. I send him txt msgs about my feelings sometimes and he either ignores them, or says something sweet to lure me back but still doesn’t want a relationship with me. Honest I don’t trust him one bit. I went from thinking he was a nice loyal gentleman to a player who wants to have sex with any girl he sees. I know he loves me, he’s just not IN love anymore. What should I do??? I’m depressed. I’m getting older and I just want the right person to create a future with. I am 27. Any men with advice if you’ve been through this?

Category: asked March 10, 2014

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He's playing you. For the sake of your feelings. Please just cut contact. I know this isn't something you want to do, but he is going to keep doing this and never give you a relationship. You are going to end up very hurt in the end. You deserve better than this.Somewhere out there is a guy who will want to be in a relationship with you and car about your feelings 100% of the time. Why should you wait for your ex when this guy could be right in front of you?But, in the end, no one but you can make the decision. Do what makes you happy.