I’m depressed over my ex bf…

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My ex bf dumped me last September because we were not getting along. Especially when we were apart. We would argue a lot. But when we were physically together we would have so much fun. I loved him more then any guy I’ve ever been with. He was my first REAL love. I’ve found out that he’s been dating other girls but is still single. We remained friends and hang out once in a while. My feelings for him haven’tp changed. I want to be with him but I’m waiting until he takes me back when I know I shouldnt. I know I should move on but I can’t stop thinking about him everyday. I feel like he’s using me by keeping me around just in case he can’t find another better then me. I’m not handling him hanging out with me once in a while and hanging out with other girls that well. I send him txt msgs about my feelings sometimes and he either ignores them, or says something sweet to lure me back but still doesn’t want a relationship with me. Honest I don’t trust him one bit. I went from thinking he was a nice loyal gentleman to a player who wants to have sex with any girl he sees. I know he loves me, he’s just not IN love anymore. What should I do??? I’m depressed. I’m getting older and I just want the right person to create a future with. I am 27. Any men with advice if you’ve been through this?

asked March 10, 2014

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In this case my only advice is mind over matter. Yes, it is hurtful. No, it does not go away overnight. But it's worth it in the long run for you to move on. It's never too late to find love, but if you want a partner who will respect you, you have to respect yourself which means knowing your worth -- and you're worth a lot more than he is treating you.