im confused about my sexuality

Not that you need a label, but you sound pretty open minded to both genders. I think you would be bisexual, or better yet, pansexual. Pansexualty is the acceptance of all sexes, genders, and gender identities. Of course, there are multitudes of sexualities that you could identify as. Here's a link to a post on Tumblr that lists a bunch of the sexualities. You may see one that you truly identify with. (: http://hermajestyhelps.tumblr.com/post/44988123586/list-of-sexualities But you can just halt the labels for now and say you are questioning. This is fine, many people are. It takes time to discover who you really like, but it will happen. You might learn through self discovery or you might learn from a crush or relationship. Whatever it is, it's all very normal and open minded. Ciao! (:

There is evidence that women are more likely to be attracted to both sexes, where men tend to be more uncut and dry about men or women exclusively. So I would say you are normal. I think your bisexual. Since you like both. Each for different reasons. Maybe the novelty of lesbianism attracts, while you fundamentally like guys more. Maybe you can't see yourself with a women simply because you are already "programmed" to see yourself with a man. Whatever the reason, there is no need to rush to make a choice and label yourself. I think there is more stress with trying to figure out which one you are, then there is in how you truly feel.