Too add on to the above statement (which is a really good point I may add.)In my opinion it's bad only if you are actually together with the guy and you've cheated on him with your ex. We all "like" someone whether it be celebrities, exes, or whoever it's how we act upon those feelings of like and unlike is the real question. If you love the guy you're dating, then you love him, but if you want to be with your ex that's entirely up to you and how strong your love is between you and the guy you are dating.