Because love doesn't mean only good things my friend. Love embraces sometimes teaching us that doing the wrong you must pay the price.For example, if someone kills thousands of people, that person normally is considered "bad" and should go to hell. But from the point of view of that single person that killed thousands, there would be a good reason on that person mind. So, what if hell existed just to explain for that person that he/she did wrong and should pay for it?There is nothing wrong in teaching someone a lesson, if it is for its own good, even if it will be painful for that person, there will be a reason for that punishment: redemption for love...Well, I tried to explain in some words my thoughts, hope it could be useful for you, my friend