If been with my gf 8months and we have been fighting a lot at least once a week. What could the prob

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If been with my gf 8months and we have been fighting a lot at least once a week. What could the problem be?

Category: asked July 11, 2013

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The problem could be that you and him are not meant to be.. Although it is normal for couples to have a argument every now and then, but y'all have only been dating a little less then a year, so therefore; it's a little too early to be fighting. If y'all keep fighting, don't you think it will just get worse as you continue to date? -Message me if you would like to talk.-- Good Luck!
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Part of me agrees with the first poster, but I also think it depends on the intensity of the fight. My girl and I are forever squabbling but it takes us about 5 minutes to make up more often than not and it's usually about something silly. If you're having huge fights once a week, you guys either need to sit down and talk about your problems without judging or accusing one another and see if you can work it out. If you can't, it's time to move on. Sometimes it just doesn't work, no matter how much you love someone.
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I would to know more about your relationship honestly. Like how often are you together/apart? just a little more detail about the situation. Whats happening when the fights start? How do they begin/end.
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You guys could be spending too much time together. Too many couples feel the need to spend time together, not the want. You should enjoy your time together and look forward too it otherwise you end up resenting the person. It is also possible you guys have gotten over the honeymoon period (where all you see are the things you have in common and everything you like about the person) to the aftermath (where all you see are the person's flaws and your differences become apparent). If your relationship can survive the aftermath period it could be a serious thing. A relationships takes work but it should not be a constant struggle, try and weight the good with the bad. Sometimes you need to take a step back and ask yourself "Is this what I really want?"