i think i’m a bit too infatuated with my manager.

i recently just turned 21, and she’s about going into 24. I’ve been working as a retail sales associate with her for about 3 years now, and just recently maybe 4 months now I’ve grown some sort of feelings towards her, i know she has a boyfriend and everything but theres just something about her. maybe its the fact, me and her get along so good…or its just her body & looks. but some of the feelings make me want to just try and make my move but then again she’s my manager and the fact she has a boyfriend is another thing too.

this question is pretty laughable to be honest. maybe some people in here had the same experience good or bad, just wanted to get an input or maybe advice to maybe get this girl in bed haha.

asked January 28, 2014

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Lonny Breaux

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I would respect her relationship status. Even though you really like her, there are other girls that are single and could catch your interest. But that's just me. Also, dating someone you work with usually doesn't turn out well, I've seen many people try, and most of them fail and have to see their ex everyday unless someone leaves. Oh and the last sentence was not cool, so hopefully you were joking (I'm talking about the "just wanted to get an input or maybe advice to maybe get this girl in bed ;) haha"). Find someone else--who's single! This isn't to be harsh. I know it isn't easy, but it's better not to hurt someone or you to hurt yourself in the process of trying to pursue someone who isn't single.

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SilentRain

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I agree with respecting her relationship status.But I would just like to say I have ha relationships with co-workers. With my boss, at an equal employment level and with my employee. It works very well for me in general, but work ethic is one of the main things I have looked for in my partners.

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Unlikeany

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