I think I might go crazy

I have been with my boyfriend for three years now and July of 2012 I found naked pictures of some girl in his email. I was hurt but I let it go and took him back. In march 2013 I found some again of the same girl. I feel so angry all the time. My mood swings are so crazy I love him but I feel as if he will never change. The more I think about it the more I notice little things like when we were in high school he would look at her the way he looks at me I never thought anything of it but now I feel like he talks to her behind my back. He can say he’s not but I just have that gut feeling, why would you ever hurt someone you love? You don’t. Maybe my mind set is all messed up but I have no one to talk to so that led me here.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked April 10, 2013

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In my mind there's a vast difference between a mistake, and an affair. A mistake could be a moment of madness, something forever regretted that's totally out of personality. But an affair requires willful deceit and betrayal. Now, this isn't quite an affair, but it still takes a lot of betrayal to go through the steps required to get another girl to send nude pictures - this isn't 'a mistake', especially after the second time. The sad fact is some people do lie and cheat on the people they love. He's been caught, forgiven and he did it again - this would be enough for me to decide he may not be willing to settle for just you. People like this rarely deserve your forgiveness, and there's somebody out there you can one day love who's not so willing to hurt you.

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Mr. Walrus